FIRST NIGHT IS IT SPOOKY?

“I am a man 25 years old, next month i will get married with my fiancee, I little bit worry and pound waiting for ' THE FIRST NIGHT '. I also afraid if my fiance is not a virgin anymore, I little worry if she ever did it with her Ex boyfriend. Then what is the signs if a women not a virgin anymore?"

That is one of the example of question which is oftenly asked about first night by men and women either considering lots of wrong information and myth about first night that make confusing and finally what happened next is ANXIOUSLY.

Actually its not as anxiously as what people tough, that first night will make hurtful, a hard bleeding, and even virginity shown by some particularly sign that makes so many women afraid to pass her first night, eventhough she never have a sex experience before.

The above anxiety its common, some society opinion said that most of men pursue his wife is a virgin at the first night which is signed by bleeding because of torn of the hymen, infact a lot of women whish is not bleeding at that moment because of they ever get bleeding when they have an physical activity, sport, etc.

It seem that guys need to learn a lot about reproduction health , so that not being a Burden to his wife with all of things that reduce husband trust to his wife, because of the first night that he tough 'fail'.

I oftenly explain that there no physical characteristic of women weather she still virgin or not, means communication it's the only way to open about you and your couple sexual experience and indeed, the key is faith which is you two planted in your relationship. (dr.Iwan)